About Me
So who am I to give you advice and guidance on this subject? Well apart from having chosen a different career and course of life, my background may be a lot like yours. Some years ago I found myself in a situation possibly similar to your current position. Following the break up of my marriage of fifteen years and a period of being on my own doing the type of thing newly free men do, I was alone in that strange world of suddenly singles.
Being new to this I sought advice from men who were in a similar situation, some of whom I hadn’t seen for a good number of years. When couples separate one or both of the members disappear from couple world with its attendant couple social life and it becomes all too easy to lose contact. So I went and found these men who had disappeared into a life of singledom some years earlier and what I found was quite frankly shocking. One of my friends, when I asked what he did with all this newfound freedom, basically said he watched the TV. Well I knew what I wanted, and it wasn’t watching the TV on my own every night, but had no idea how to go about getting it. I wanted to find a partner who would be my friend, my companion and my lover.
There then followed a period of intense trial and error, some of it fun, some of it not and some of it down right embarrassing, whilst I navigated the new and slightly scary world I had been cast adrift in. There were failures and some successes before eventually reaching the goal I had set myself at the outset.
The essence of what I learnt and applied forms the basis of this plan. I am convinced that if you follow the steps in the plan and take the actions I suggest you too will be successful. More than that by following my guidance you can avoid a large number of the mistakes I made, saving yourself time, money and embarrassment along the way. However there is nothing difficult and nothing surprising. The plan simply involves doing the things you already know you should be doing, and stopping doing the things you already know you should not be doing.
Simon
