“You must take personal responsibility. You cannot change circumstances, the seasons or the wind but you can change yourself”
Jim Rohn
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First Impressions Count!
Be aware of first impressions. Impressions come from what you look like, how you act and what you stand for. When asked, the vast majority of women would accept a date if the man asking seemed normal and pleasant. First impressions count, so always look your best.
There are three qualities women notice about any man
Appearance
- what comes from outside
- “he looks after himself”,
Attractive
- what emanates from with-in
- “he has life and is interesting”,
Attitude
- confidence and ambition
- “he can look after me”.
Your Physical Appearance
The basic message is to get in shape and feel good about yourself.
Your shape doesn’t really matter. What matters is how you feel about what you look like. If you are happy with your body you feel more confident and more attractive - this is in your mind.
Your Clothes
When you dress well you feel good which makes you feel confident which makes you look confident.
The number one rule is to always to look great whatever your income. Looking your best means wearing clothes which are
· Clean
· Ironed
· In good repair
· The right size
· Matching
· Appropriate to the location in which you find yourself.
Your Habits
Identify if you have anything that would cause you to be unacceptable and then remove those habits. Get tools to help you identify the habits you have and then remove them.
Your Confidence
For a woman the most attractive thing about you is the confidence you have and exhibit. It comes back looking like you can deal with any situation. If you can look after yourself, you can look after her. Fin out how to become and look more confident.
Your Manners
Your attractiveness to a woman depends on how you make her feel. If you make her feel special then you are attractive to her and she will want to spend time with you. Discover what makes her feel good.
Your Interests
To be attractive to a woman, you need to be interesting. You need to do interesting things, know interesting things and have interesting things to talk about.
You have to make yourself more interesting. Give yourself things to talk about and suddenly you are interesting.
Your Ambitions
Women are attracted to ambitious men who know what they want to achieve in life and are working towards it. You need to think why you are special and work on it.
Sort your job and career and think about your plans for your life outside of work.
Your Independence
Women like you to be strong and independent and this is an important part of sex appeal. They dream of strong, capable, independent males. Homer Simpson isn’t sexy. Independence is a must.
Independence is also a physical thing and typically for a man this means not being dependent on your mother. This means being able to look after yourself. Women observe such things before you notice.
Identify what independence means, what part of independence is attractive to women and then work on getting exactly that!
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“Nothing succeeds like the appearance of success“
Christopher Lasch
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Your Goal
First impressions count, so always look your best. Work on your appearance to become presentable and feel good about yourself.
The Plan
Get in shape, sort out your eating regime, review and adapt your wardrobe, identify and eliminate unpleasant habits and become interesting, positive and independent.
