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Why Do I Fail?

Monday, March 23rd, 2009

 

“A good plan vigorously executed right now is far better than a perfect plan executed next week”

General George Patton

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Ready - Aim - Wait!

So there you have it. You now have all the tools and the knowledge you will need to meet and attract women. The only question is will you use them to do what it was you wanted when you set out on this journey. Knowledge isn’t power - the use of knowledge is power so get out there and use it. Life doesn’t reward you for what you know; it rewards you for what you do.

You may well follow this advice and then wait. You wait for the perfect time and rationalise this as part of your preparation. There is rarely a perfect time to do anything. It’s like waiting to start a car journey until all the traffic lights on the road are green - it never happens. Nothing happens until you take action.

You may spend your whole life aiming at the target and never firing. The best way to hit the target is to fire, see where the arrow lands and adjust your aim as a result. You live your life as “Ready - Aim - Wait”! The thing that separates winners from losers is that winners take action. Decide to be a winner today.

In order to win the big prizes you have to buy a ticket. When you have your hat in the ring, you have a chance.

Get That Plan

Get a plan, put it on auto pilot and then stop thinking. Just do it! Get an email and find a date. Take action and feel good about yourself.

Don’t accept less than you want out of life. Don’t do it. Don’t let your emotions permanently change your outlook or stop you from taking action in the future. You want certainty of success and you can become terrified of making a mistake. Hence you wind up being never certain and never moving. The only mistake is not making the attempt. It’s better to have fought and lost, than to not have fought at all!

Put yourself out there and learn how to approach and attract women. Don’t leave it to chance, you have to take action and make it happen. Some men never get it even though they keep getting burned. They would rather be right than happy. The law of averages says you will sometimes fail so keep your expectations in check, your skin thick and your sense of humour robust. The law also says you will succeed!

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 ”Things may come to those who wait, but only the things left by those who hustle”

Abraham Lincoln

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Your Goal  

Pull the trigger. Overcome procrastination and fear. Do it now.

The Plan  

Decide to enter the lottery. Appreciate where your comfort zone is and look to stretch yourself. Discover and overcome previous conditioning which is holding you back. Break your goals up into small chunks and commit to do each of the steps.

 

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